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2, I am acting by some small, but not lacking; my good-natured, but it did!
3, is the difference between human and pig: Pig has been a pig, but sometimes not the people!
4, is separate from the original as long as the person, no matter how familiar the original, will gradually become alienated.
5, to the pizza shop to buy a pizza! Waiter asked me to cut into 8 or 12? I then said: or 8 now! 12 eat!
6, a man 忽悠 woman, called molestation; woman 忽悠 man, called to seduce; each flicker of men and women, called love.
7, the government thinking about how a reasonable taxation, the boss think of how reasonable tax avoidance, and I think of how a reasonable sleep!
8, time is used to wandering, the body is used to love, life is for the forgotten, and the soul, is used to singing.
9, love is like ghosts, I believe more people to see fewer people
10, how far it always? Your kid go away!
11, came across a girl personalized signature: Maybe it seems probably, but not necessarily. Also get a personalized signature Kid: Give me a girl, I can create a nation.
12, since I became a dog feces, to no one stepped on my head.
13, I would like puppy love, but too late ... ...
14, my God! They lost my clothes.
15,80 after the important task is to create 08 after.
16, others have their background, and I only have back ~ ~.
17, is always shining gold, but all over the floor of gold, I do not know which pieces of their own.
18, to remind everyone to learn to repair your own laptop, this is very important! Once a man, he will not repair your own laptop ...... then things we all know. (From *** event, do not say more because of it)
19, I am not a fortune-teller square, chatter not so much you want to hear nibbling.
20, not the end of the story is not good enough, but the requirements of our story too!
21, flowers, flowers are often people who do not belong, and belong to cow dung.
22, is the difference between lies and vows: one is to listen to the people seriously, and one is that the people who take it seriously.
23, single is not difficult, the difficulty is to cope with those who do want you to end the single.
24, sometimes, not the other side do not care about you, but you see the other side too.
25, even believe, also hidden in the middle of a lie.
26, a real good friend, not together, there is endless talk about the topic, but together, if not speak, do not feel embarrassed.
27, not 100 points, the other half, only two of 50 points!
28, usually willing to stay and argue with you people who truly love you!
29, life is not dress rehearsal, live every day; only low ratings, but wages are not high.
30, money can be used to solve the problem is not a problem, the problem is that I was poor.
31, Only women are also upset with the hero, only his wife and working hard to find also.
32, see me later you will suddenly find that - ah, the original commander also can be specific it!
33, asked a colleague: > 34, at noon in the cafeteria called two dishes. I eat the first shock of the
35, mice of a angry, we are all sick cats.
36, travels to brothels were not old, please Huiren Shenbao.
37, listen to king's words, provincial and ten books I have!
38,0-year-old debut appearance, 10 years old and every day. Lofty ideal of the age of 20, 30, worked hard. The basic orientation of 40-year-old, 50-year-old popular everywhere. 60 mahjong 70 years old everywhere around. Homely 80-year-old Lara, 90-year-old hung on the wall!
39, undressed, I was an animal, I Yiguanqinshou dressed!
40, into gold, I hope that she, as the gold as dirt.
42, read 10 languages, as talk half QQ.
43, lazy bed the morning, then took out six coins in his pocket: If you throw to six are positive, I went to school! Thinking hesitate a long time, or forget, do not take the risk of the ... ...
44, I spent 80,000 bought a Western Zhou pottery, called yesterday to the is the Western Zhou Dynasty? This is the last week! ! ! But that does not tolerate the money is fake! ! ! !
46, who pretended to be dead for an understanding friend, a woman makes herself by plastic surgery.
47, do not wait until everybody says when you find yourself really ugly ugly.
48, Personals: requirements are as follows, A Living, B woman.
49, to the point of the sun I'll decay.
50, should be appropriate to eat a little, only effort to lose weight.
51, Shanghai Triad, shake to Modoribashi.
52, Q: Do you like my point? A: I like you away from me!
53, you come back, I do not come one 忽悠!
54, life is like Zude's mouth, the next you never know who will be bad ~ ~ ~
55, fell, got up and cry ~ ~ ~
56, the world is difficult to extricate themselves, in addition to teeth, as well as love.
57, Xi'an Jiaotong University passed when a dinosaur on the trips to the bathroom, came out she sobbed: Live, easy. Life is not easy.
59, asked, can a misery, like a group of eunuchs on the brothel ... ...
60, was young, we often directed at the mirror and make faces; old age, the mirror be even.
61, first to find the cause of problems, not a strange planet has no gravity constipation.
62, racking our brains decision-making, to ensure that each of the offerings, making ass leave.
63, we are going too fast, the soul can not keep up the ... ...
64, and the Earth people do not generally experience ~ ~ ~
65, Chu Laihun, his wife wish to change sooner or later!
66, a child grow up, I thought I could save the world, and so grow up they discover that the whole world can not save me ... ...
67, even if I was a toad, a toad and I will not marry his mother .
68, why long sleep before his death, since death would be buried ... ...
69, the tailor did not want to cook, not a good driver.
70, you let me roll, I rolled. You make me come back, I'm sorry, roll away the
71, is over, you do not talk to me, I become the dog and leave it ~ ~!
72, morning and catch the bus to the site, the car has started. So I had to side chasing barefoot and shout:
73, just graduated meet again; year after graduation will be his wife; later regret, a wife; and then later have second wife; most regret a second wife
74, I do not hit you, you do not know civil and military .
75, I'm so fond of you, you will not die like my look.
76, have in mind to cemeteries, funeral the survivors
77, I allow you into my world, but you're not allowed to I walk around the world ..
78, or forbearance, or cruel
79, although your body spray cologne, but I can still vaguely smell smelt scum.
80, Journey to the West to tell us: where there are monsters in the background have been picked up, those who have no background killed by a stick
81, I do not care to think about a life together with your
82, This carousel is one of the most brutal game, chasing each other, but never separated from the tragic
83, is ** the ideal, the reality is very skinny
84, will inevitably complain about the time the hand, love to write into each other at
85, waiting for your concern, until I closed the heart
86, I love you, you say what is what. I do not love you, what you say you are.
87, love. aiai Succeed anyway
88, I'm not the RMB, how to make everyone like me?
89, if you are destined to not give the response I expect. then kept at a safe distance it
90, our goal: to money, to make thick
91, if a bad mood, go to the supermarket tweak instant noodles (ultra right !!!!!!!!!!!!!! )
92, you go away, non-stop rolling ... ...
93, the most is the dead of night, thoughts become so ** Unconstrained
94, please do not put me on your tolerance as you shameless capital
95, Zhuge Liang before coming out with a soldier did not, ah, you want me to have work experience Pingsha
96, Memory is a bridge, and is leading to a lonely bridge
97, his aging mother Hogan opened an evildoer to know you a
98, I turned to forget you passerby, so how can accompany you to the horizon Love wasted?
99, happiness is a relatively level, there must be something just felt bottom
100, love is like ghosts, I believe that many people, met few people
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Monday, April 25, 2011
Office Politics have to look at the unspoken rules of the 20 workplace
Are in the workplace, the Office of practical proficiency in the rules, the equivalent of people in the arena, well versed in skillfully deflected the question of the road.
1, the office only two kinds of people, characters and bit-part player.
workplace, want to live the easy, do not want to climb, it will only make you a lifetime utility man. Disadvantages for the bit-part player is: die you go to the credit and there are not, lay off the first consideration. Now is not the workplace where support lazy people, you better live than others, for only when the main character, so that others do bit parts. You can not stepping on others shoulders, others can only do scapegoat.
2, each person should have great ambitions, even if you can to destroy the world.
ambitious is the first condition in the leading role. In the workplace, if you do not have a goal, it is impossible climb ahead, and finally reduced to bit-part player, became the victim of other people. So whether to destroy the world, or become the first richest man, you have to feel ambition, as a goal.
3, do not be ideal flicker, the ideal is necessary, but not someone else's ideal, but your own.
when brought ambition, some people will think of business goals, think of corporate culture, thought the boss impassioned speech. Those who forget it, the ideal boss is the boss, and the workplace, you are independent. To keep a clear mind and can not be easily 忽悠. No matter what good people, to keep in mind their own ambition, this is the root of Ritsumeikan.
4, if it did not aim high, then fight for the money.
when everyone has DDR, if not for the money, who wants it when the officials. So money is one the most important pursuit. Very dangerous situation in the workplace, the boss with a good win over the people, like white people do not take money to work. But we really willing to do much work, then you are worthless, since no value, what there is need for it? Money is the only measure of your value things. Do you really want nothing, then it would struggle to make money.
5, you can not smart, but not careless.
career with this, like, you can not smart, but not careless. Not smart people, some of the most awkward things to do worse. And in the workplace, this is not a great sin. But not at any time committed to the care for the interests of others to commit the workplace taboo to offend people. Until then, do not know why make trouble for wearing. Management firm mouth, to talk less romantic when colleagues can say nice things when people do not say bad things about.
6, every word you say, the boss will know it. So to think about what to say, not to say anything.
do not expect your boss to say in private can not hear. Boss to know everything, this is the truth. Exactly the same workplace, as long as you're not a man to himself, will then have to worry about talking to spread out. And experience tells us that every sentence of the company's arguments, the final boss will be spread to the ears. So you talk to anybody, we need to think about, what to say, not to say anything. Not to say absolutely can not say, do not say can be said to have shut up.
7, occasionally it is necessary to ingratiate themselves with the boss, but targeted.
remember that long conversation is a kind of means, not really what you say. Occasional pledge allegiance, to say the private has been insignificant, then let the boss feel you close. In fact, a boss will never really connect. Avoid a tears, put children are to pay out of pit of the stomach. Betrayed, that will always be heart to heart.
8, no matter what time, play the fool is always the most difficult to make mistakes.
Jin Yong has said, his elderly behind the ear, the hearing can hear the words, hear the words should not be told no. When someone wants you to stand in face to face position, the direction you choose to do, no matter how you choose wrong. Then play the fool is the best choice, it is not difficult to choose the most infallible method. Do not worry about a silly look very bad, even if everyone is to see you play the fool, but they still can not get you. Really bad people who made it clear, these bit-part player at the expense, how are not your day.
9, regard themselves as the most intelligent person, often the most stupid.
in the workplace, always think of myself as the most intelligent person, it must be done bit-part player's life. Master of really smart, is knowing too, when the smart smart, should not smart when you play the fool.
10, must have the backing, but also reliable than the backing, is to make yourself valuable.
so in the workplace, and good relations with superiors is a necessary homework, find a good backing for their very important. And more important than this is so that they have enough value, so that each supervisor must draw you.
11, you are the boss man, the boss is not necessarily you, this meaning must be understood.
When a boss says to you, you are his people, the mind must be clear, your boss is not your man. You are his, he is his own. When you thing there is a conflict of interest with the boss, they will not hesitate to sell you. Whenever you have to remember that you are your own, only you can yourself. Do not trust your boss pretending to be a close, it always will be a trap.
12, your boss said he was assured that the facts may be just the opposite.
If your boss is really on your mind at ease, he does not often mentioned. Real trust, the performance by actions. When the boss is willing to put harmful things, the workplace and you struggle with things to do, it is the trust's performance. The boss said to you verbally assured, then it should be careful, and very likely what you do, let your boss have suspected infidelity.
13, stood in position to question your boss, standing position to do their own thing.
when the boss trusts you so that you do something, the mind must have the account, do not be silly looking over everything. You have to stand up supervisor position to consider the issue, to understand why the boss to do, to what purpose. And then choose their own position, and some do, some of shirk. Even as I was into the seemingly loyal to the owners, nor what will be done. Chosen for their own interests to do, the idea does not meet the interests of the excuses. Please do something with the boss, do not you let your manager know that you have fully tried.
14, boss suddenly collapse, do not panic, to complete the task alone, and then to find a new backer.
in the workplace, the frequent collapse of the things your boss suddenly. If you are unfortunate enough to meet, do not panic, alone to complete the task at hand, and do pretty exciting. And this is what you will settle in the capital, you can to find a new backer. Again, you must make yourself valuable to you than someone covered important.
15, to do good things, worked until old.
The key value is reflected in the Department, is a vital place, then to a sudden outbreak. And irrelevant, especially when only the elbow grease to do no credit to live, do not do very well. Always done well, will continue working. If people think that you can only do mediocre work, even till exhausted, you do not have to climb that day.
16, must have shortcomings.
in the workplace, must have shortcomings, a perfect and flawless people, be subject to hate, will be arm's length. If even the boss is on you at arm's length, and that the road to dangerous workplace. So some smart people will intentionally expose shortcomings, particularly the shortcomings irrelevant, let your manager thought he could get and hold you, that is the most secure position. But the disadvantage will not be fatal, but can not be your real weaknesses, only time can be romantic about the sideshow, and people more than cotton, no way to hold that against you.
17, who half a grade higher than you, often the most dangerous, the same level is the natural enemy.
If you already have an official post, and that certain empathy on the sentence. Because of the high level of people you have half a sense of crisis, for fear they may be equal at any time, so they'll have a chance against you. Regardless of grade or a high-half, are superior, they give you make trouble for the extremely dangerous. The same level of people is an inevitable enemy, as long as your boss is not a fool, will provoke men to fight.
18, ten years have nine the truth, a lie to say only one letter.
career, nine really is the best rule for a holiday. A stray boss who is not trusted, and only loyalty is almost non-Liars, was able to fool all of the most critical moment. You want to be honest people, honest people who can win the trust of people, do not trust other people lie when there is no key. Lying only in the most critical moment, the less one can to the less one. Wolf's story, we all should have heard.
19, if all of each panic as life and death, so that lie not guilty.
critical difficulties in the workplace, is how to lead their own psychological barrier. Some people naturally do not lie, a lie on the guilt. At this time, you need to think of ambition of the. When a person has ambition, ideals, faith, he can do anything. Yu told a lie in order to complete the task, killed a man, but also did many bad things. This is entirely because of his faith in the support, so do not guilt. And you have to remember that every lie is likely to be life and death, if his heart had not, you may not realize their own ideals. If you feel that way, you will be guilty it?
20, everyone is standing on the evil side, because everyone has his own good.
the last say on a good reason. Everyone has their own ideals, and is conducive to their own ideals are good, and not conducive to good people is evil. Because of people each have their own position, have different needs. So in the eyes of others, you must stand on that side of evil. You'll always be your own good, others evil. But how big is the real good like, how is the big evil? To achieve the ideal that a lie, it is evil, but not the big evil. If your ideal is to destroy the world, it is the great evil. For example, you are to the cause of fire, and my colleagues the ideal of happiness, then, even as this ideal did something bad, nothing but a small evil. Great for small line of good and evil, the saints has always been held in contempt. Can do the saints themselves. So the saints can be from Confucius, Mencius, Wang Yang-ming has been discharged closer closer. Confucianism, there are the key to apply what they learn is to let you know what great good as long as the ideal can be doing everything. However, you have to really believe their aim is good.
1, the office only two kinds of people, characters and bit-part player.
workplace, want to live the easy, do not want to climb, it will only make you a lifetime utility man. Disadvantages for the bit-part player is: die you go to the credit and there are not, lay off the first consideration. Now is not the workplace where support lazy people, you better live than others, for only when the main character, so that others do bit parts. You can not stepping on others shoulders, others can only do scapegoat.
2, each person should have great ambitions, even if you can to destroy the world.
ambitious is the first condition in the leading role. In the workplace, if you do not have a goal, it is impossible climb ahead, and finally reduced to bit-part player, became the victim of other people. So whether to destroy the world, or become the first richest man, you have to feel ambition, as a goal.
3, do not be ideal flicker, the ideal is necessary, but not someone else's ideal, but your own.
when brought ambition, some people will think of business goals, think of corporate culture, thought the boss impassioned speech. Those who forget it, the ideal boss is the boss, and the workplace, you are independent. To keep a clear mind and can not be easily 忽悠. No matter what good people, to keep in mind their own ambition, this is the root of Ritsumeikan.
4, if it did not aim high, then fight for the money.
when everyone has DDR, if not for the money, who wants it when the officials. So money is one the most important pursuit. Very dangerous situation in the workplace, the boss with a good win over the people, like white people do not take money to work. But we really willing to do much work, then you are worthless, since no value, what there is need for it? Money is the only measure of your value things. Do you really want nothing, then it would struggle to make money.
5, you can not smart, but not careless.
career with this, like, you can not smart, but not careless. Not smart people, some of the most awkward things to do worse. And in the workplace, this is not a great sin. But not at any time committed to the care for the interests of others to commit the workplace taboo to offend people. Until then, do not know why make trouble for wearing. Management firm mouth, to talk less romantic when colleagues can say nice things when people do not say bad things about.
6, every word you say, the boss will know it. So to think about what to say, not to say anything.
do not expect your boss to say in private can not hear. Boss to know everything, this is the truth. Exactly the same workplace, as long as you're not a man to himself, will then have to worry about talking to spread out. And experience tells us that every sentence of the company's arguments, the final boss will be spread to the ears. So you talk to anybody, we need to think about, what to say, not to say anything. Not to say absolutely can not say, do not say can be said to have shut up.
7, occasionally it is necessary to ingratiate themselves with the boss, but targeted.
remember that long conversation is a kind of means, not really what you say. Occasional pledge allegiance, to say the private has been insignificant, then let the boss feel you close. In fact, a boss will never really connect. Avoid a tears, put children are to pay out of pit of the stomach. Betrayed, that will always be heart to heart.
8, no matter what time, play the fool is always the most difficult to make mistakes.
Jin Yong has said, his elderly behind the ear, the hearing can hear the words, hear the words should not be told no. When someone wants you to stand in face to face position, the direction you choose to do, no matter how you choose wrong. Then play the fool is the best choice, it is not difficult to choose the most infallible method. Do not worry about a silly look very bad, even if everyone is to see you play the fool, but they still can not get you. Really bad people who made it clear, these bit-part player at the expense, how are not your day.
9, regard themselves as the most intelligent person, often the most stupid.
in the workplace, always think of myself as the most intelligent person, it must be done bit-part player's life. Master of really smart, is knowing too, when the smart smart, should not smart when you play the fool.
10, must have the backing, but also reliable than the backing, is to make yourself valuable.
so in the workplace, and good relations with superiors is a necessary homework, find a good backing for their very important. And more important than this is so that they have enough value, so that each supervisor must draw you.
11, you are the boss man, the boss is not necessarily you, this meaning must be understood.
When a boss says to you, you are his people, the mind must be clear, your boss is not your man. You are his, he is his own. When you thing there is a conflict of interest with the boss, they will not hesitate to sell you. Whenever you have to remember that you are your own, only you can yourself. Do not trust your boss pretending to be a close, it always will be a trap.
12, your boss said he was assured that the facts may be just the opposite.
If your boss is really on your mind at ease, he does not often mentioned. Real trust, the performance by actions. When the boss is willing to put harmful things, the workplace and you struggle with things to do, it is the trust's performance. The boss said to you verbally assured, then it should be careful, and very likely what you do, let your boss have suspected infidelity.
13, stood in position to question your boss, standing position to do their own thing.
when the boss trusts you so that you do something, the mind must have the account, do not be silly looking over everything. You have to stand up supervisor position to consider the issue, to understand why the boss to do, to what purpose. And then choose their own position, and some do, some of shirk. Even as I was into the seemingly loyal to the owners, nor what will be done. Chosen for their own interests to do, the idea does not meet the interests of the excuses. Please do something with the boss, do not you let your manager know that you have fully tried.
14, boss suddenly collapse, do not panic, to complete the task alone, and then to find a new backer.
in the workplace, the frequent collapse of the things your boss suddenly. If you are unfortunate enough to meet, do not panic, alone to complete the task at hand, and do pretty exciting. And this is what you will settle in the capital, you can to find a new backer. Again, you must make yourself valuable to you than someone covered important.
15, to do good things, worked until old.
The key value is reflected in the Department, is a vital place, then to a sudden outbreak. And irrelevant, especially when only the elbow grease to do no credit to live, do not do very well. Always done well, will continue working. If people think that you can only do mediocre work, even till exhausted, you do not have to climb that day.
16, must have shortcomings.
in the workplace, must have shortcomings, a perfect and flawless people, be subject to hate, will be arm's length. If even the boss is on you at arm's length, and that the road to dangerous workplace. So some smart people will intentionally expose shortcomings, particularly the shortcomings irrelevant, let your manager thought he could get and hold you, that is the most secure position. But the disadvantage will not be fatal, but can not be your real weaknesses, only time can be romantic about the sideshow, and people more than cotton, no way to hold that against you.
17, who half a grade higher than you, often the most dangerous, the same level is the natural enemy.
If you already have an official post, and that certain empathy on the sentence. Because of the high level of people you have half a sense of crisis, for fear they may be equal at any time, so they'll have a chance against you. Regardless of grade or a high-half, are superior, they give you make trouble for the extremely dangerous. The same level of people is an inevitable enemy, as long as your boss is not a fool, will provoke men to fight.
18, ten years have nine the truth, a lie to say only one letter.
career, nine really is the best rule for a holiday. A stray boss who is not trusted, and only loyalty is almost non-Liars, was able to fool all of the most critical moment. You want to be honest people, honest people who can win the trust of people, do not trust other people lie when there is no key. Lying only in the most critical moment, the less one can to the less one. Wolf's story, we all should have heard.
19, if all of each panic as life and death, so that lie not guilty.
critical difficulties in the workplace, is how to lead their own psychological barrier. Some people naturally do not lie, a lie on the guilt. At this time, you need to think of ambition of the. When a person has ambition, ideals, faith, he can do anything. Yu told a lie in order to complete the task, killed a man, but also did many bad things. This is entirely because of his faith in the support, so do not guilt. And you have to remember that every lie is likely to be life and death, if his heart had not, you may not realize their own ideals. If you feel that way, you will be guilty it?
20, everyone is standing on the evil side, because everyone has his own good.
the last say on a good reason. Everyone has their own ideals, and is conducive to their own ideals are good, and not conducive to good people is evil. Because of people each have their own position, have different needs. So in the eyes of others, you must stand on that side of evil. You'll always be your own good, others evil. But how big is the real good like, how is the big evil? To achieve the ideal that a lie, it is evil, but not the big evil. If your ideal is to destroy the world, it is the great evil. For example, you are to the cause of fire, and my colleagues the ideal of happiness, then, even as this ideal did something bad, nothing but a small evil. Great for small line of good and evil, the saints has always been held in contempt. Can do the saints themselves. So the saints can be from Confucius, Mencius, Wang Yang-ming has been discharged closer closer. Confucianism, there are the key to apply what they learn is to let you know what great good as long as the ideal can be doing everything. However, you have to really believe their aim is good.
Boys , please take a few minutes reading this article (girls do not look , cry )
This is a true story, from the Internet, I was touched by the girl's behavior, so just go to my space. Boys will definitely have to look at, only few minutes of your time should be lost in thought after reading After looking girls do not cry! -
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out of the stadium and saw the door was a familiar figure sitting, came to see is the promise child. I patted her, she apparently startled and saw me, and sighed with relief, to a rice cooker insulation handed my hand. I took, she hurriedly hides behind the handle, but I still see her hand was blistering hot. -
box of rice a little cold, I asked her:
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I eat the box of rice, promise child sitting next to me, nervously: Socks can imagine this will not wash the girl how awkward the first meal for me. Is the long absence of the moving heart. I laughed and said:
promise to meet the children listened smiling face, stood up and left. -
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Teammates are curious to see the great promise child, the. -
QQ, I asked her,
she Oh giggling, happy to say:
ah, Nokia children, believe me, so I save enough money to let you make the most beautiful bride, we get married. -
Although we did not get the first team, but we just formed this team soon, the province's second achievement is already very good, so I decided to continue their efforts can not be non-beat first. -
CS game more and more, I more and more busy, I forgot how long the children had never thought that promise, and I always race to the late, occasionally see her on the QQ, she always Silence, I do not know how she was. Now think of it, know that this is their right, because I never cared about her is not happy, How are you getting bad. -
day, she said:
I said:
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a long time, her head no more shaking QQ. -
few days later, I saw her give me the message: is silly, Mo Kanwan to close the QQ. -
few months later, so after CS is already home exhausted, and fell on the bed of a move do not want to move. Then the phone rings, I do not want to take, can it rang forever. I promise I saw a number of children to pick up snappily said: >
call came a roar that end:
not promise child, I am surprised a moment,
promise child? Funeral? What with what? I would like to ask, the phone hang up screeching. -
a sudden sense of terror took an me, I try my hardest to call back, long before people pick up, is a very hoarse voice,
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H's what my head, do, promise child she really was hurt? -
day, I saw the promise carried out by their children, also with a smile on her face, angelic smile can no longer glow Pan, and Snow's friends, seeing my children's eyes is clearly hostile, wait for them to eat me. Promise child's mother told me, there is thrombocytopenia promise child, the family let her do nothing, for fear she accidentally break a finger or any place, flow of blood. Thought cured, but then somehow, suddenly decreased platelet and cardiac function have begun to failure. A few days before her sudden good spirits, we all understand what that means, she said she would like to hear your voice, call you, but shut down, she said that you must do in the game. Some people say to look for you, you can promise to prevent children, she said, race is important to you, she was afraid of your anger, she spoke their cried, and we all followed, and she said sure one day you will understand her important than the CS, but she can not wait until the ... ... from the promise child mother has wiped the tears come. I have not played CS for several days, and stare at the image of promise child of the QQ, since the promise child had gone, I'm all about the power seems to have been siphoned off. Are particularly tired body and mind. -
I opened the promise of children QQ know, which I am the only person number. -
I noticed her information there is a web site, open a feeling Inn, have a variety of stories, including a signed article is the promise child. -
to him. -
I am quite happy, I like to listen to him, but he would not even unwilling, and I said, because he's busy, he want to make CS. He no longer call me a fool, and he never said love me, nor sent flowers to me, but I still like him. -
One day I told him river flooding again, and he said to accompany me, I am very happy. One day I saw a very cute dog, and he promised me that, in future we will have one, also known as promise child, I am very happy. He said a few days with me watching movies, kite flying, I am particularly happy, though these have not yet realized, I believe that one day will. But I am afraid can not wait that long. -
He said the CS important than me, I'm not mad, because this is the truth, but I am very sad, so I secretly cried. I think I'm not strong enough, I do not good enough, the doctor said I had not the next birthday, which is * on * day, he did not know my birthday too! But it does not matter. -
I was weak, just hit a few words on the tired, really useless. -
I know he has a lot of girlfriends, it was just as I go, he would not hurt, although I did want to marry him, I always hope he sent me roses, even if only one, before a lot of people send me, but I confiscated because it represents love, I think I could not wait for the day he sent me, so I secretly bought a gift myself, I think I wrote something he never disappeared, so I can beat whim text, I have to call him, but he was off. That annoying voice repeating 'I'm sorry, you dial the phone was switched off'. I really want to, really want to talk with him, even for a minute, listen to his voice Ye Hao, and we have not met a long time, and I miss him every day. Really good for nothing, cried, alas, in fact, I was very worried about him, and he played the game a long time, eyes hurt, I bought but can not give him eye drops, and, he was fussy eaters ... ... -
article did not finish, like she tired at the end of a flash, I click Play, elegant voice echoed in the empty room. -
/ Every time I come past is sunny / remember we have ever had before / the tears started to spread a little bit ... ... Every time I turn a blind eye / I'll always see / you will all realize the promise / I kissed your face / You have not by my side / I wish you had a good point / line broken love / I do not do break / just want to hear your honey before bed complex words sweet words ... ... p>
Flash making a little rough, but I hold back for a long time that tears or drops down to the end of the screen there are lines of small print. -
want to accept your rose, a Ye Hao; -
would like more time to love you, even if only one second; -
But now, I have good hands shaking and wanted to see your face.
I am one person in the dark room, and finally burst into tears, I do miss you, my favorite woman, had a chance to pet you, had a chance to fulfill its promise, I had a chance to let you do the most beautiful bride. -
damn CS, I did not even see above you one last time, I'm damned. -
Yes, I understand that you are the most important, but unfortunately you can not wait for me. -
Qingming no rain this year, I gave up CS, do white collar, I will want you to be my most beautiful bride. -
week I would come here every day, I just want to talk to you like your tombstone white pure hunger. Light breeze like your hair over my face Buddha, still miss my favorite of your smile. -
friends and family are surprised at my change, I do not smoke, do not play CS, and do not go on, and kept a lovely dog like you, as good as when we say, call it promise child, I would just like to talk to you, sending you the most beautiful roses. -
promise child, I love you.Please read each person, are reproduced to your log, do not wait around love you lost now, to know and treasure! -
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out of the stadium and saw the door was a familiar figure sitting, came to see is the promise child. I patted her, she apparently startled and saw me, and sighed with relief, to a rice cooker insulation handed my hand. I took, she hurriedly hides behind the handle, but I still see her hand was blistering hot. -
box of rice a little cold, I asked her:
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I eat the box of rice, promise child sitting next to me, nervously: Socks can imagine this will not wash the girl how awkward the first meal for me. Is the long absence of the moving heart. I laughed and said:
promise to meet the children listened smiling face, stood up and left. -
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Teammates are curious to see the great promise child, the. -
QQ, I asked her,
she Oh giggling, happy to say:
ah, Nokia children, believe me, so I save enough money to let you make the most beautiful bride, we get married. -
Although we did not get the first team, but we just formed this team soon, the province's second achievement is already very good, so I decided to continue their efforts can not be non-beat first. -
CS game more and more, I more and more busy, I forgot how long the children had never thought that promise, and I always race to the late, occasionally see her on the QQ, she always Silence, I do not know how she was. Now think of it, know that this is their right, because I never cared about her is not happy, How are you getting bad. -
day, she said:
I said:
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a long time, her head no more shaking QQ. -
few days later, I saw her give me the message: is silly, Mo Kanwan to close the QQ. -
few months later, so after CS is already home exhausted, and fell on the bed of a move do not want to move. Then the phone rings, I do not want to take, can it rang forever. I promise I saw a number of children to pick up snappily said: >
call came a roar that end:
not promise child, I am surprised a moment,
promise child? Funeral? What with what? I would like to ask, the phone hang up screeching. -
a sudden sense of terror took an me, I try my hardest to call back, long before people pick up, is a very hoarse voice,
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H's what my head, do, promise child she really was hurt? -
day, I saw the promise carried out by their children, also with a smile on her face, angelic smile can no longer glow Pan, and Snow's friends, seeing my children's eyes is clearly hostile, wait for them to eat me. Promise child's mother told me, there is thrombocytopenia promise child, the family let her do nothing, for fear she accidentally break a finger or any place, flow of blood. Thought cured, but then somehow, suddenly decreased platelet and cardiac function have begun to failure. A few days before her sudden good spirits, we all understand what that means, she said she would like to hear your voice, call you, but shut down, she said that you must do in the game. Some people say to look for you, you can promise to prevent children, she said, race is important to you, she was afraid of your anger, she spoke their cried, and we all followed, and she said sure one day you will understand her important than the CS, but she can not wait until the ... ... from the promise child mother has wiped the tears come. I have not played CS for several days, and stare at the image of promise child of the QQ, since the promise child had gone, I'm all about the power seems to have been siphoned off. Are particularly tired body and mind. -
I opened the promise of children QQ know, which I am the only person number. -
I noticed her information there is a web site, open a feeling Inn, have a variety of stories, including a signed article is the promise child. -
to him. -
I am quite happy, I like to listen to him, but he would not even unwilling, and I said, because he's busy, he want to make CS. He no longer call me a fool, and he never said love me, nor sent flowers to me, but I still like him. -
One day I told him river flooding again, and he said to accompany me, I am very happy. One day I saw a very cute dog, and he promised me that, in future we will have one, also known as promise child, I am very happy. He said a few days with me watching movies, kite flying, I am particularly happy, though these have not yet realized, I believe that one day will. But I am afraid can not wait that long. -
He said the CS important than me, I'm not mad, because this is the truth, but I am very sad, so I secretly cried. I think I'm not strong enough, I do not good enough, the doctor said I had not the next birthday, which is * on * day, he did not know my birthday too! But it does not matter. -
I was weak, just hit a few words on the tired, really useless. -
I know he has a lot of girlfriends, it was just as I go, he would not hurt, although I did want to marry him, I always hope he sent me roses, even if only one, before a lot of people send me, but I confiscated because it represents love, I think I could not wait for the day he sent me, so I secretly bought a gift myself, I think I wrote something he never disappeared, so I can beat whim text, I have to call him, but he was off. That annoying voice repeating 'I'm sorry, you dial the phone was switched off'. I really want to, really want to talk with him, even for a minute, listen to his voice Ye Hao, and we have not met a long time, and I miss him every day. Really good for nothing, cried, alas, in fact, I was very worried about him, and he played the game a long time, eyes hurt, I bought but can not give him eye drops, and, he was fussy eaters ... ... -
article did not finish, like she tired at the end of a flash, I click Play, elegant voice echoed in the empty room. -
/ Every time I come past is sunny / remember we have ever had before / the tears started to spread a little bit ... ... Every time I turn a blind eye / I'll always see / you will all realize the promise / I kissed your face / You have not by my side / I wish you had a good point / line broken love / I do not do break / just want to hear your honey before bed complex words sweet words ... ... p>
Flash making a little rough, but I hold back for a long time that tears or drops down to the end of the screen there are lines of small print. -
want to accept your rose, a Ye Hao; -
would like more time to love you, even if only one second; -
But now, I have good hands shaking and wanted to see your face.
I am one person in the dark room, and finally burst into tears, I do miss you, my favorite woman, had a chance to pet you, had a chance to fulfill its promise, I had a chance to let you do the most beautiful bride. -
damn CS, I did not even see above you one last time, I'm damned. -
Yes, I understand that you are the most important, but unfortunately you can not wait for me. -
Qingming no rain this year, I gave up CS, do white collar, I will want you to be my most beautiful bride. -
week I would come here every day, I just want to talk to you like your tombstone white pure hunger. Light breeze like your hair over my face Buddha, still miss my favorite of your smile. -
friends and family are surprised at my change, I do not smoke, do not play CS, and do not go on, and kept a lovely dog like you, as good as when we say, call it promise child, I would just like to talk to you, sending you the most beautiful roses. -
promise child, I love you.Please read each person, are reproduced to your log, do not wait around love you lost now, to know and treasure! -
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Recommend to every man - a real man
Because love will not do so because of damage from enemy
it will not be friends
only the most familiar stranger ......
love dedicated to all get over it also lost a loved one, to never get the love, give love because it is still, so he chose self-defeating. That, is a mirror, to tell you. must be brave, brave to give up, brave and start again.
when she does not love you, no matter whether she loved the past but later forgotten, or never loved. When you can not be the man she thought when she heart will not remember you. Although she knows you love her, but she would prefer to pretend do not know.
when she does not love you, please do not you are not happy or in trouble the time to bother her. she is definitely not there, the right place for you at the moment. Maybe she will be when you call, a touch of comfort you a few words, but only so far. Perhaps you will then want a little something, So that we see it. and she certainly has been irritable heart. When she no longer loves you, your love, your people, was the cheap will be many. you account for the next wind. It is human nature . She would say, OK, but I do now, later when you'll call me. or I can call you. And when you do not take it seriously. she just found a reason not very clear to stall you. Please, do not really go and so on. Do not kid yourself.
when she does not love you, please do not tell your story with her, perhaps at the moment, you want to make more familiar with each other, only. She has no interest in no time even to go to know you, your life, your past. your strengths and weaknesses with her, what though? even talk about it. she will soon forget, as she forgot you birthday. your address. your phone call. no love, then you're destined to squeeze into her life. if you want even a tiny corner.
when she does not love you , please do not shed tears in front of her, do not tell her when sick. She can not give you care and concern, at best sympathetic look. Please be proud of you, do not give up the pride originally belong to you. Although much people in the face of love lost too much. even the courage to stand up are not, however, to remember that only love themselves. will really go to pamper you. and not, spectator's sympathy, compassion .. .
when she does not love you, your love is a burden to her. Please do not pay to calculate their own, but do not want nothing in return, love do not love themselves, is in itself No returns. also do not care about right and wrong. This will happier. Remember, the love between you and her, one-sided, you heart. She unintentionally. so. do not blame her. Perhaps she would also like to to do better. you do not like cold. But, love a person, and one good. is a kind of instinct. I'm sorry. her you have no such instincts.
when she does not love you, Please do not lose their confidence. because you love someone, not her best, but only a feeling. She makes you feel that way, so you love her. Again, she does not love you, not you're not good. Excellent is not love, reasons. to see if there are so many love their people, faint smile about, is the same sweet.
when she does not love you, but also must be blessed her. With love, we should not have hate, love is good. Hate is ugly. Why let the best things in life turned into ugly it? do not think that is unfair. she lost a person who loved her, And you lose a person does not love you, but get a life again. the opportunity to re-love.
Please do not go thinking forever. Love is not forever. your moment of love, but doomed distant day no longer love her, she just gotten there earlier than you this day.
So, when she does not love you so. gently hug your memories of the warm, soft gaze that withers gentle.
when she no longer loves you,, you breathe deeply, life on the road, covered with flowers of love, there is always one that belongs to you. not in the comfort you. Instead, it is already destined lifetimes. believe in yourself!
when she no longer loves you, do not call her. One I think you can only exchange for her silence. Than silence made you sad, she said, .
when she no longer loves you, do not give her the information, do not try to use the words evoke her memories of you, because your people can not move her, even if she touched a back, in exchange for a moment of tenderness, and then make you uncomfortable blank.
when she no longer loves you, do not deliberately make themselves appear in places with her, not in the lively crowd were forced to pretend you do not care. If you can, choose a quiet lonely, so that their wounds heal slowly!
when she no longer loves you, do not give her a 2nd chance to hurt you. Do not believe she said:
When she no longer loves you, not to imagine you can leave a tear in her heart. Even a moment she was moved by your tears, but her time will not impress you shed tears over a long time.
When she no longer loves you is time, do not ask her, do not ask myself, why she could so quickly forget you? Still believe that the feeling of the original, if then you think she liked you, she is like you. But now I do not explain the reason for it is redundant.
When she no longer loves you, work and school is the best way to transfer the pain. Even if you did not have too much to do, learning to be busy, but in any case, do not indulge themselves, drinking, smoking; even if it hurt you, do not give yourself an excuse to indulge, because only you hurt yourself.
When she no longer loves you, do not cry, do not think all the world then no one will love you like her so maybe she was not far away waiting for you. If you must cry, to cry very much love, but just a, do not let the tears flooded the smile you have, you still had you.
When she no longer loves you, believe me, all this will be the last, when you see her as common as seeing someone else. Believe me, because I just came out of romance, the story, there you have me!
reasons for breaking up Do not ask, do not think about the possibility of complex, the sun went down, make yourself happier
it will not be friends
only the most familiar stranger ......
love dedicated to all get over it also lost a loved one, to never get the love, give love because it is still, so he chose self-defeating. That, is a mirror, to tell you. must be brave, brave to give up, brave and start again.
when she does not love you, no matter whether she loved the past but later forgotten, or never loved. When you can not be the man she thought when she heart will not remember you. Although she knows you love her, but she would prefer to pretend do not know.
when she does not love you, please do not you are not happy or in trouble the time to bother her. she is definitely not there, the right place for you at the moment. Maybe she will be when you call, a touch of comfort you a few words, but only so far. Perhaps you will then want a little something, So that we see it. and she certainly has been irritable heart. When she no longer loves you, your love, your people, was the cheap will be many. you account for the next wind. It is human nature . She would say, OK, but I do now, later when you'll call me. or I can call you. And when you do not take it seriously. she just found a reason not very clear to stall you. Please, do not really go and so on. Do not kid yourself.
when she does not love you, please do not tell your story with her, perhaps at the moment, you want to make more familiar with each other, only. She has no interest in no time even to go to know you, your life, your past. your strengths and weaknesses with her, what though? even talk about it. she will soon forget, as she forgot you birthday. your address. your phone call. no love, then you're destined to squeeze into her life. if you want even a tiny corner.
when she does not love you , please do not shed tears in front of her, do not tell her when sick. She can not give you care and concern, at best sympathetic look. Please be proud of you, do not give up the pride originally belong to you. Although much people in the face of love lost too much. even the courage to stand up are not, however, to remember that only love themselves. will really go to pamper you. and not, spectator's sympathy, compassion .. .
when she does not love you, your love is a burden to her. Please do not pay to calculate their own, but do not want nothing in return, love do not love themselves, is in itself No returns. also do not care about right and wrong. This will happier. Remember, the love between you and her, one-sided, you heart. She unintentionally. so. do not blame her. Perhaps she would also like to to do better. you do not like cold. But, love a person, and one good. is a kind of instinct. I'm sorry. her you have no such instincts.
when she does not love you, Please do not lose their confidence. because you love someone, not her best, but only a feeling. She makes you feel that way, so you love her. Again, she does not love you, not you're not good. Excellent is not love, reasons. to see if there are so many love their people, faint smile about, is the same sweet.
when she does not love you, but also must be blessed her. With love, we should not have hate, love is good. Hate is ugly. Why let the best things in life turned into ugly it? do not think that is unfair. she lost a person who loved her, And you lose a person does not love you, but get a life again. the opportunity to re-love.
Please do not go thinking forever. Love is not forever. your moment of love, but doomed distant day no longer love her, she just gotten there earlier than you this day.
So, when she does not love you so. gently hug your memories of the warm, soft gaze that withers gentle.
when she no longer loves you,, you breathe deeply, life on the road, covered with flowers of love, there is always one that belongs to you. not in the comfort you. Instead, it is already destined lifetimes. believe in yourself!
when she no longer loves you, do not call her. One I think you can only exchange for her silence. Than silence made you sad, she said, .
when she no longer loves you, do not give her the information, do not try to use the words evoke her memories of you, because your people can not move her, even if she touched a back, in exchange for a moment of tenderness, and then make you uncomfortable blank.
when she no longer loves you, do not deliberately make themselves appear in places with her, not in the lively crowd were forced to pretend you do not care. If you can, choose a quiet lonely, so that their wounds heal slowly!
when she no longer loves you, do not give her a 2nd chance to hurt you. Do not believe she said:
When she no longer loves you, not to imagine you can leave a tear in her heart. Even a moment she was moved by your tears, but her time will not impress you shed tears over a long time.
When she no longer loves you is time, do not ask her, do not ask myself, why she could so quickly forget you? Still believe that the feeling of the original, if then you think she liked you, she is like you. But now I do not explain the reason for it is redundant.
When she no longer loves you, work and school is the best way to transfer the pain. Even if you did not have too much to do, learning to be busy, but in any case, do not indulge themselves, drinking, smoking; even if it hurt you, do not give yourself an excuse to indulge, because only you hurt yourself.
When she no longer loves you, do not cry, do not think all the world then no one will love you like her so maybe she was not far away waiting for you. If you must cry, to cry very much love, but just a, do not let the tears flooded the smile you have, you still had you.
When she no longer loves you, believe me, all this will be the last, when you see her as common as seeing someone else. Believe me, because I just came out of romance, the story, there you have me!
reasons for breaking up Do not ask, do not think about the possibility of complex, the sun went down, make yourself happier
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Walk in the Clouds
If you do not know what is bitter
not understand what is happiness
hurt your heart when the depths of human well-being
Although the burst to cry
the vicissitudes of world is the way to go finish
There will also be flat Ke Hum rough way
the key to success or failure is only one step
How can we live in quite a
Do not be afraid all alone no turning back
I will not be left behind by your side
Let us overcome all the difficulties
even near the end of the world has
I will always keep you on the road with you alone
accompany you fly Jiuxiao Walk in the Clouds
so grievances have been turned into nectar
the rest is just happy
happiness ...........
always wanted to own a coffee bay, elegant style, rub a little fashion, a small hint of the kind of impetuous.
house color, painted light purple, can not, but to warm pressing may not be gorgeous, but delicate carved.
painting walls, paste favorite peerless beauty, pleasant Jiaoqiao Sissi, headstrong outspoken He Sijia, flirtatious charm of the Egyptian queen; poignant despair, Anna , Zhuo Pugao Gui's Jane Eyre. Aromatic, collect all the eyes.
aroma filled the air, is not expensive not too cheap. Ruoyouruowu, specious, flying is the lure, but not a trace of ambiguity. To be a quiet heart, can only taste.
flowing aroma is classic Lyric Writing. Elvis Presley, Bandari, Mui ... ... is the voice of heaven. Echoing the level just right to leisurely, without deliberately rendered Yang, just gently tapping with the weakest human heart a string, a little bit, and slowly pulled out, usually suppressed the faint trace strands, becoming more than a species can not tell the light cool and pleasant. Sound of nature, readily come to weigh.
placed inside a table, adjacent to the distance, just far enough past. Standard human scale, not to far too indifferent, it will not nearly be suppressed.
tablecloths, is crushing white flowers, purple kind, and the house color, echoed. Each table vase, the interpolation is one red and one yellow, two roses. Red, the interpretation of the love between men and women; yellow, the interpretation of all the love. What love what color choice with the passengers.
blue Yan lover, Pretty in Pink, a confidant on the line. Mountains and streams, highbrow, but for pure. Law of this world the world, can be omitted. Flowers aside, is a cartoon-style dishes, the emphasis is on warmth. Because of the human bones nostalgia. Because of the, more older people, the more missed childhood.
table and couch, the plain milky white, clean and comfortable. To side, can be flat.
sections inside the line of Miss, can not face the United States, but it must be fresh, eyes can not be great, but must be kind. Was dressed in a floral dress, plunge lavender scarf, soft-spoken, whine and not greasy. Wind blowing through the ears, warm and pleasant. Slender women, such as water feelings.
coming and going of visitors, only incidentally in passing, casually stop, and casual leave. Filter to a busy day, dumping off a tired, Shan off the dust, or alone, or two or three groups. Or side, or lying down.
if you want, as long as you are comfortable. Here, you can not a gentleman, not a lady. There are only shedding the social attributes of the animals. Do not have to whitewash, not hypocritical. Feel free natural color. Just do not forget to throwback to the distinction between people and animals ^ - ^
drink coffee, he can freely renamed according to their preferences. Each name is recorded in a mood. When out of coffee, throw it away. And then into the time and regain.
pick up and throw transmigration between
is an elegant.
the so-called Walk in the Clouds, this predicament want anything else?
not understand what is happiness
hurt your heart when the depths of human well-being
Although the burst to cry
the vicissitudes of world is the way to go finish
There will also be flat Ke Hum rough way
the key to success or failure is only one step
How can we live in quite a
Do not be afraid all alone no turning back
I will not be left behind by your side
Let us overcome all the difficulties
even near the end of the world has
I will always keep you on the road with you alone
accompany you fly Jiuxiao Walk in the Clouds
so grievances have been turned into nectar
the rest is just happy
happiness ...........
always wanted to own a coffee bay, elegant style, rub a little fashion, a small hint of the kind of impetuous.
house color, painted light purple, can not, but to warm pressing may not be gorgeous, but delicate carved.
painting walls, paste favorite peerless beauty, pleasant Jiaoqiao Sissi, headstrong outspoken He Sijia, flirtatious charm of the Egyptian queen; poignant despair, Anna , Zhuo Pugao Gui's Jane Eyre. Aromatic, collect all the eyes.
aroma filled the air, is not expensive not too cheap. Ruoyouruowu, specious, flying is the lure, but not a trace of ambiguity. To be a quiet heart, can only taste.
flowing aroma is classic Lyric Writing. Elvis Presley, Bandari, Mui ... ... is the voice of heaven. Echoing the level just right to leisurely, without deliberately rendered Yang, just gently tapping with the weakest human heart a string, a little bit, and slowly pulled out, usually suppressed the faint trace strands, becoming more than a species can not tell the light cool and pleasant. Sound of nature, readily come to weigh.
placed inside a table, adjacent to the distance, just far enough past. Standard human scale, not to far too indifferent, it will not nearly be suppressed.
tablecloths, is crushing white flowers, purple kind, and the house color, echoed. Each table vase, the interpolation is one red and one yellow, two roses. Red, the interpretation of the love between men and women; yellow, the interpretation of all the love. What love what color choice with the passengers.
blue Yan lover, Pretty in Pink, a confidant on the line. Mountains and streams, highbrow, but for pure. Law of this world the world, can be omitted. Flowers aside, is a cartoon-style dishes, the emphasis is on warmth. Because of the human bones nostalgia. Because of the, more older people, the more missed childhood.
table and couch, the plain milky white, clean and comfortable. To side, can be flat.
sections inside the line of Miss, can not face the United States, but it must be fresh, eyes can not be great, but must be kind. Was dressed in a floral dress, plunge lavender scarf, soft-spoken, whine and not greasy. Wind blowing through the ears, warm and pleasant. Slender women, such as water feelings.
coming and going of visitors, only incidentally in passing, casually stop, and casual leave. Filter to a busy day, dumping off a tired, Shan off the dust, or alone, or two or three groups. Or side, or lying down.
if you want, as long as you are comfortable. Here, you can not a gentleman, not a lady. There are only shedding the social attributes of the animals. Do not have to whitewash, not hypocritical. Feel free natural color. Just do not forget to throwback to the distinction between people and animals ^ - ^
drink coffee, he can freely renamed according to their preferences. Each name is recorded in a mood. When out of coffee, throw it away. And then into the time and regain.
pick up and throw transmigration between
is an elegant.
the so-called Walk in the Clouds, this predicament want anything else?
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
The New York Times In China, Money Can Often Buy Love ( in English)
In China, love has a price
In China, Money Can Often Buy Love
By Didi Kirsten Tatlow
Beijing - in China can indeed buy that love - or in this materialistic country is a common creed.
many private cases seem to be able to prove the ideal partner is able to afford houses and cars for people; feelings are secondary.
Although mercantilism has spread widely, but not everyone thought it was a good thing. A series of Chinese films, TV series and programs are asked a question: In this era of rapid economic growth in what is love?
when a female guest in a very popular TV dating show declared: shocked. But others insist that the guests, Mano, now accustomed to being called
soaring property prices in recent years, contributed to this feeling, in Beijing and other cities, many people accept the notion that women only and there is room to establish relations between men.
Feng Yuan, 26 years old, in the government (crab) the educational background of the government company, to bring together friends and another for men.
fears deepened this attitude. After three decades of rapid, uneven economic development lags behind, those who feel the discarded people feel great anxiety, they feel a lack of opportunities, is surrounded by big money and rising prices.
new creed is cruel, this is the 26-year-old learned the organizers of cultural activities.
a man, asked to remain anonymous to protect his privacy, earning 4,000 yuan a month, or $ 600, but also afford to pay for the district in Beijing's most popular modest house. The houses 3,000 U.S. dollars per square meter, together $ 280 per square foot. Housing inflation is serious. Ten years ago, similar to the house to $ 345 per square meter.
Instead, he tried to save money to buy a year's Department of iphone3 to impress his girlfriend. Updated iphone4 - the symbol of tide - just listed. However, to about $ 900, have been beyond his ability.
this phone is not enough, she dumped him last week, said it was because her parents gave her more money to find a boyfriend.
hurt him, despite all that he believed his girlfriend loves him. Yes, he is very rational.
the only way to find love, he says, is to become rich.
been criticized for such intention. BMW M, Ma tough attitude by her film director Zhang Yimou has recently gentle reprimand. In a Hong Kong newspaper
Zhang, Sunday to 59 years old, representing the older generation, recall that more equal, and perhaps more poverty and more political repression of the Mao era, it was in before the economic upheaval caused when the material progress.
his latest film, love story, do not see a BMW, the film spent a lot of time showing Jingqiu bike lover in her smiling picture. It concluded that love is such a thing.
other works also attended the debate.
called B's character, his common-law revenue potential ridicule by his, exclaimed:
a new film, To
an artist named Yihong in New York tied the knot with her lover, close-ups in her in his arms, wearing a diamond ring on the finger. The real fantasy, perhaps, is the love and money correct.
Feng President, failed to match into no house of her friend, said many Chinese women on the partner's requirements reflect their vulnerability, not power. They fear they are not wanted, so he went to give their men.
many Chinese men do not think so, they let the game continue. For the 26-year-old organizer for the money lost love is reasonable.
Letter from China
In China, Money Can Often Buy Love
By DIDI KIRSTEN TATLOW
Published: November 11, 2010
BEIJING - Money really can buy you love in China - or at least that seems to be a common belief in this increasingly materialistic country.
Many personal stories seem to confirm that the ideal mate is the one who can deliver a home and a car, among other things; sentiment is secondary.
However widespread this mercantilist spirit, not everyone thinks it is a good thing. A spate of Chinese films, plays and television shows have raised the question: What is love in an age of breakneck economic growth?
Many Chinese were shocked this year when a female contestant on a popular TV dating show, the contestant, Ma Nuo, now popularly known as
Rocketing property prices in recent years have contributed to such feelings, with many people in Beijing and other cities accepting the idea that a woman will pursue a relationship with a man only if he already owns an apartment.
Feng Yuan, a 26-year-old who works in a government education company, tried to set up a friend with a man she thought suitable.
Without an apartment, love isn't possible.
Fueling these attitudes is a drumbeat of fear. After three decades of fast-paced, uneven economic growth, there is enormous anxiety among those who feel they are being left behind, lacking the opportunities and contacts to make big money while all around them others prosper and prices soar.
The new creed can be hard, as a 26-year-old cultural events organizer learned.
The man, who asked for anonymity to protect his privacy, earns about 4,000 renminbi, or $ 600, a month, making even a modest apartment in an unfashionable district of Beijing unaffordable. These homes can cost about $ 3,000 per square meter, or about $ 280 per square foot. Housing inflation is severe. Ten years ago, a similar apartment cost about $ 345 per square meter.
Instead, he tried to impress his girlfriend of three years by saving for a year to buy an iPhone 3. The newer iPhone 4 - a hot status symbol - had just gone on sale. But at about $ 900, that was beyond his means.
The phone was not enough. Last week, she left him, citing pressure from her parents to find a richer mate.
He is heartbroken, believing, despite all, that his girlfriend truly loved him.
p>
The only way to find love, he said, is to become rich. parents, and then my future girlfriend can have a good life.
Such calculations have their critics. The hard-nosed attitude of Ms. Ma, the BMW woman, earned her a gentle reprimand recently from the film director Zhang Yimou. In an interview in The South China Morning Post, a Hong Kong newspaper, he urged young people to re-examine their values.
Mr. Zhang, who turns 59 on Sunday, represents an older generation that remembers the more egalitarian, if also poorer and more politically repressive, Maoist era, before the economic changes that unleashed the scramble for material advancement.
His latest film, in sight, the film shows the teacher spending quite a lot of time smiling on her sweetheart's bicycle. Love is the thing, it concludes.
Other productions have joined the debate.
A character known as B, grilled by a potential mother-in-law about her very ordinary income, yells: / p>
A new film, and Diesel, it follows poor but gorgeous Fei as she arrives in Beijing to intern at a fashion magazine.
p>
A tumultuous courtship with a wacky artist named Yihong ends up with the couple united in New York. A closing shot shows her in his arms, a diamond on her finger. The real fantasy, perhaps, is love plus money.
Ms. Feng, who had failed to find a match for her apartmentless friend, said the demands that many Chinese women make on ; prospective mates reflected weakness, not power. Lower in status, they fear not getting what they want in life, and look to men to ; provide it.
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Few Chinese men do either, reinforcing the rules of the game. For the 26-year-old events organizer, losing his love to money was justifiable.
In China, Money Can Often Buy Love
By Didi Kirsten Tatlow
Beijing - in China can indeed buy that love - or in this materialistic country is a common creed.
many private cases seem to be able to prove the ideal partner is able to afford houses and cars for people; feelings are secondary.
Although mercantilism has spread widely, but not everyone thought it was a good thing. A series of Chinese films, TV series and programs are asked a question: In this era of rapid economic growth in what is love?
when a female guest in a very popular TV dating show declared: shocked. But others insist that the guests, Mano, now accustomed to being called
soaring property prices in recent years, contributed to this feeling, in Beijing and other cities, many people accept the notion that women only and there is room to establish relations between men.
Feng Yuan, 26 years old, in the government (crab) the educational background of the government company, to bring together friends and another for men.
fears deepened this attitude. After three decades of rapid, uneven economic development lags behind, those who feel the discarded people feel great anxiety, they feel a lack of opportunities, is surrounded by big money and rising prices.
new creed is cruel, this is the 26-year-old learned the organizers of cultural activities.
a man, asked to remain anonymous to protect his privacy, earning 4,000 yuan a month, or $ 600, but also afford to pay for the district in Beijing's most popular modest house. The houses 3,000 U.S. dollars per square meter, together $ 280 per square foot. Housing inflation is serious. Ten years ago, similar to the house to $ 345 per square meter.
Instead, he tried to save money to buy a year's Department of iphone3 to impress his girlfriend. Updated iphone4 - the symbol of tide - just listed. However, to about $ 900, have been beyond his ability.
this phone is not enough, she dumped him last week, said it was because her parents gave her more money to find a boyfriend.
hurt him, despite all that he believed his girlfriend loves him. Yes, he is very rational.
the only way to find love, he says, is to become rich.
been criticized for such intention. BMW M, Ma tough attitude by her film director Zhang Yimou has recently gentle reprimand. In a Hong Kong newspaper
Zhang, Sunday to 59 years old, representing the older generation, recall that more equal, and perhaps more poverty and more political repression of the Mao era, it was in before the economic upheaval caused when the material progress.
his latest film, love story, do not see a BMW, the film spent a lot of time showing Jingqiu bike lover in her smiling picture. It concluded that love is such a thing.
other works also attended the debate.
called B's character, his common-law revenue potential ridicule by his, exclaimed:
a new film, To
an artist named Yihong in New York tied the knot with her lover, close-ups in her in his arms, wearing a diamond ring on the finger. The real fantasy, perhaps, is the love and money correct.
Feng President, failed to match into no house of her friend, said many Chinese women on the partner's requirements reflect their vulnerability, not power. They fear they are not wanted, so he went to give their men.
many Chinese men do not think so, they let the game continue. For the 26-year-old organizer for the money lost love is reasonable.
Letter from China
In China, Money Can Often Buy Love
By DIDI KIRSTEN TATLOW
Published: November 11, 2010
BEIJING - Money really can buy you love in China - or at least that seems to be a common belief in this increasingly materialistic country.
Many personal stories seem to confirm that the ideal mate is the one who can deliver a home and a car, among other things; sentiment is secondary.
However widespread this mercantilist spirit, not everyone thinks it is a good thing. A spate of Chinese films, plays and television shows have raised the question: What is love in an age of breakneck economic growth?
Many Chinese were shocked this year when a female contestant on a popular TV dating show, the contestant, Ma Nuo, now popularly known as
Rocketing property prices in recent years have contributed to such feelings, with many people in Beijing and other cities accepting the idea that a woman will pursue a relationship with a man only if he already owns an apartment.
Feng Yuan, a 26-year-old who works in a government education company, tried to set up a friend with a man she thought suitable.
Without an apartment, love isn't possible.
Fueling these attitudes is a drumbeat of fear. After three decades of fast-paced, uneven economic growth, there is enormous anxiety among those who feel they are being left behind, lacking the opportunities and contacts to make big money while all around them others prosper and prices soar.
The new creed can be hard, as a 26-year-old cultural events organizer learned.
The man, who asked for anonymity to protect his privacy, earns about 4,000 renminbi, or $ 600, a month, making even a modest apartment in an unfashionable district of Beijing unaffordable. These homes can cost about $ 3,000 per square meter, or about $ 280 per square foot. Housing inflation is severe. Ten years ago, a similar apartment cost about $ 345 per square meter.
Instead, he tried to impress his girlfriend of three years by saving for a year to buy an iPhone 3. The newer iPhone 4 - a hot status symbol - had just gone on sale. But at about $ 900, that was beyond his means.
The phone was not enough. Last week, she left him, citing pressure from her parents to find a richer mate.
He is heartbroken, believing, despite all, that his girlfriend truly loved him.
p>
The only way to find love, he said, is to become rich. parents, and then my future girlfriend can have a good life.
Such calculations have their critics. The hard-nosed attitude of Ms. Ma, the BMW woman, earned her a gentle reprimand recently from the film director Zhang Yimou. In an interview in The South China Morning Post, a Hong Kong newspaper, he urged young people to re-examine their values.
Mr. Zhang, who turns 59 on Sunday, represents an older generation that remembers the more egalitarian, if also poorer and more politically repressive, Maoist era, before the economic changes that unleashed the scramble for material advancement.
His latest film, in sight, the film shows the teacher spending quite a lot of time smiling on her sweetheart's bicycle. Love is the thing, it concludes.
Other productions have joined the debate.
A character known as B, grilled by a potential mother-in-law about her very ordinary income, yells: / p>
A new film, and Diesel, it follows poor but gorgeous Fei as she arrives in Beijing to intern at a fashion magazine.
p>
A tumultuous courtship with a wacky artist named Yihong ends up with the couple united in New York. A closing shot shows her in his arms, a diamond on her finger. The real fantasy, perhaps, is love plus money.
Ms. Feng, who had failed to find a match for her apartmentless friend, said the demands that many Chinese women make on ; prospective mates reflected weakness, not power. Lower in status, they fear not getting what they want in life, and look to men to ; provide it.
>
Few Chinese men do either, reinforcing the rules of the game. For the 26-year-old events organizer, losing his love to money was justifiable.
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