first consolation: The most important is that today's heart
Why regret for the pain lose heart now, why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone forever, no matter how regret is useless.'s future is still elusive, then are concerns about how sad will be empty. Today the heart, and now people do today, but it is real, but also feel good. Of course, past experience, to summarize, to prevent future risk, this is wisdom. < / p>
yesterday is gone and tomorrow has not arrived, this is true.
second consolation: only his own heartache therapy
Why regret for the pain lost mood. occasional complaints vent, but also very necessary, but will only add to the endless complaining about trouble, only to show their incompetence to others, complaining is a deadly negative attitude, once complained about a bad habit that his life would be dark, no state of mind not only their own good, but others are also bad luck to follow.
no good to complain, optimism is the most important.
third comfort: good state of mind is self-created
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just only our own. a bad life is not someone else's sins, but in our hearts to become worse. to make life change for the better hands of the golden key and not in another, abandon our resentment and sigh, a better life within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively it is not a good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve their lives,
do not expect to change others, own the master of life.
fourth consolation: the intention to do their own thing to do
Life is too short, which people wanted to be wasted? wise philosopher once said: Some people call me on the street, I was without looking, and did not want to know the boring person! do not harm others, do not be so critical of others, or in accordance with their wishes, first talk sense to learn skills.
especially in the youth learn skills to go all out, do not get distracted.
fifth consolation: Do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own
learn to appreciate themselves, the same as having a golden key to get happy and appreciate that they are not insular, appreciate that they are not conceited, narcissistic appreciate that they are not to enjoy themselves more than rest on its laurels ... ... their own interest to some of his letters, for ourselves some happy, smiling face for ourselves, there is no need to worry for things in life?
often to their own holiday, learn to look for feelings of pleasure.
sixth comfort: Do not chase worldly honors
The so-called life-long search for recognition things others would never have lost their fast frame cartoon music and happiness. vulgar comments will Ashes to Ashes his personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. for the money to make money himself disowned, as the right to make their own reckless right, in the name of the name to make themselves skillfully taking Grab, the real me in the pursuit of being deliberately, will become a picture of debris flying in the wind, I have become secular terrifying.
was kitsch, lost the truth, to strengthen their confidence, with self.
seventh comfort: Extreme desirable
because of concerns that some people often excessive mental disorders caused by their own chopsticks, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their indifference to everything. The former often find rational and pain, too clever by half and bad, stupid is the source of regret anything. do not know remorse after the mass, all day long sleepwalk life, there is no difference between living and dead.
extremes always fail miserably, look for the wisdom of life.
eighth comfort: you're doing someone else's evaluation
not a painting is not to be evaluated, and no one is not to be topic of discussion. If their silence, someone will accuse Praise others, some people will accuse ulterior motives, if the well-intentioned criticism of their own, some people will fly into a rage, that nosy.
just look at someone else's face, do you live do not live with ourselves, not confined to self.
ninth comfort: the more painful the deeper evil
Why can not live peacefully? key is no time driving the devil in the heart of porcelain series. because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often make stupid remorse. because there is no time cleaning the mind dust, who will be weak from time to time fall into the pit. since it is often possessed, will let stupid be so blind, into the wrong fork in the road do not know.
bad heart, they hung up, went to evil.
tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired
is often lamented, live tiring. tired is mental pressure; tired, is the heart gifts burden on IT management. tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn Relax, your living in a Chi Zhang. heart is tired, people had long suffered sub-health state; heart is tired, will make their own lack of energy.
not tired heart, learn to free himself.
eleventh comfort: Each person has their own living law
your pain yourself clearly, their own sad they understand, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell, but it is another man's heaven, heaven may be your own eye, but it is another man's hell, life is so funny, do not always spring in the family suspected, the key lies in their mindset adjusted their own lives the most important, do not climb better than.
twelfth comfort: not to desire a slave
people always sigh species of the tragedy of desire there? She Tunxiang less people. indulge their souls will eventually lose the real freedom! must be alert to bad desires.
thirteenth comfort: take life easy and happy
not blind comparisons with others, their will be leisurely, not to set too high goals in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection, will be away from their pain, not always take himself, since Waterman Man has free will to live, do not often find fault that he will be easy.
live too tired to be in pain, contentment!
fourteenth comfort: like his will to embrace life
blindly arrogant self-esteem, is proud of the life of ignorance, blindly give up on themselves, is negative and pessimistic life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. Self-esteem with the appropriate mental health, will show the face of setbacks particularly strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often optimism certainly appreciate themselves.
fifteenth comfort: the use of good eyes to the world
water is clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. CROSS everywhere can not tolerate other people's lack of points, then everyone becomes bad, it can not live in peace. to see the world of evil, the world's nowhere not a broken remnant of; to see the world of good, the world's a lovely place. their own look at other people's strengths, the more look more lovely.
sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others
is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make others aversion, people close to glass nature, speculative mentality to change, have the time please, not as good as working sense, is always a risk to please others, their only real effort.
blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.
seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow
mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go to the previous behavior of regret, that the benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to handle things behind, do not let things worse, thrown out of the water tin is not being paid, and has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, and to know the truth of these simple, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Regret no benefits, not to take things worse.
eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out
poor material is not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. Often connected with the calendar down and out of poverty, poor people often want to turn off the short and Records, psychology of poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poor material with despair, will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence, poor material at the moment, but the good days will come soon,
people are poor go rather short, self-improvement.
nineteenth comfort: there is evil curse of blessing Blessed
Mo was a moment of gains and losses carried away, blindly intoxicated temporary victory, he must be vigilant and must not claim credit arrogant, complacent, intoxicating victory means stop and pause, intoxicated with victory, means the loss of vigilance, life on the road to Song will never be maintained, the victory is just a small sign. To win the final victory, only the effort, more effort.
Mo is a moment too confused, who laugh at the latest, who laughed the most fun.
twentieth comfort: It is important to live full
to have a good every day is the greatest happiness comes from feeling good every day, always worried about tomorrow's risk, the total erase the shadow of yesterday, today, how smug life? Comparisons are not always comparisons, the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how can the quiet mood today? Unrealistic things that are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety,
suffering from not fulfilling, enriching life, not cranky.
twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun
recreational activities appropriate to adjust the mood, the joy is easy to turn endless benefits harm. Anti-matter is very, few poor to change, painful regret. Enjoy a degree is a philosophical life, Queer is not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life.
is associated joy and sorrow and joy are often accompanied by the degree will be happy.
Twenty-two comfort: for a living law may be more fun
when their not liking the most at work, everywhere are feeling the wall, is there a need for a change of scenery? When his very unhappy in marriage, and always feel are icehouse, have the courage to break through the knot? When one has been used to submissive, will stand tall to say Confident, able to self-improvement, able to adjust their living conditions,
Do not be useless to live comfortable is the spirit of happiness.
twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering
Life is short so bitter that he is not happy why is always live. Is normal in trouble, no trouble is not normal. If your heart feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, might as well enjoy the sunshine ... ...
mind to worry about hell, the first of a happy music.
twenty-four consolation: the foundation of pleasure in himself
most people in life always pleasant, and placed in the external affairs attached to the secular identity, the status of every possible value, property, and the benefits, reputation and other things that he once lost them, is a heavy blow, often lose, the foundation of their well-being and happiness also will be destroyed, if they really had such a life, then we want to be far from happy, why make others to evaluate their level of happiness, a good grasp of their own.
twenty-five consolation: feeling of happiness is happiness ... ...
many are deliberately seeking the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling. The feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decline, with people's state of mind, attitude are closely related. Sages have said: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happy, is his greatest tragedy.
happiness is only a feeling, and if I do not know enough, you will never be happy.
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